Sometimes I can get so all-or-nothing, you know?

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Remember a couple posts back, when I shared about Allison Bornstein’s “Change One Thing” method? Essentially it goes like this: if you’re feeling stuck when getting dressed, put on what you wore yesterday, but change one thing.

It’s how I got dressed today, and I’m very into this method. It feels easy and calming.

And…I’m feeling like this is a valuable mindset, not just for clothes, but for other areas of my life.

It reminds me that subtle changes in my life are still changes nonetheless. Sometimes I can get so all-or-nothing, you know? But the changes I make don’t have to be so extreme. In fact, aren’t the small changes the ones that are more likely to last?

Plus, here’s what’s fascinating to me: Once I change one small thing, it feels infinitely easier to change another thing. So it kicks off a chain of little changes — but it didn’t feel like a heavy lift, because I started from a pressure-free place.

Anyway, I hope you take a moment today to appreciate the changes you’ve been making, no matter how small they may seem.

(And, on a different note — socks peeking over boots! How cute is this? I’ve now decided I want to do this all the time!)

OUTFIT DETAILS

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Reformation Cashmere Boyfriend Sweater (wearing XS)

Alo Grand Slam Tennis Skirt

Aritzia Unwind Socks

Similar boots: DSW Reny Boots & Frye Kate Harness Boots

First Light Books Tote | Similar: Madewell NYBG Tote

JEWELRY

Madewell Molton Huggie Hoops

James Avery Sterling Silver Foxtail Chain (wearing 18in)

James Avery Sterling Silver Beaded Chain (wearing 20in) and Mini Heart Charm

Similar rings: Quince Pave Diamond Slim Signet Ring & Mejuri Thin Dome Ring

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Thanks for reading Unfancy today. See you tomorrow!