Hello friends,
Today, I’m walking around with my head held a little higher, feeling a weight lifted off my shoulders after sharing that I’ve moved on from Wyeth. One of the strange things about what I do is that by the time I’m able to share news with you, it’s often months after it’s happened. I need that time and space to reflect on my experiences before I’m ready to open up. I usually share once I’m on the other side of a transition or adjustment, when I feel clear, hopeful, and excited about what’s next – which is where I am now.
When I started this blog 13 years ago, my favorite part was sharing things in real time and engaging with everyone. Sadly, social media has changed so much over the last decade, but I still feel safe sharing deeper thoughts here with you all. This space allows me to pause and feels much more positive. It’s the community we’ve built together, and www.damselindior.com truly feels like my home.
I very rarely use the word divorce—it feels too heavy and final, like it reduces a personal experience to something negative. For me, my transitions have been about growth, not just endings. I like to think of them as separations, moments of letting go to create space for new beginnings.
The first major shift was my marriage. After nearly 16 years together, that chapter closed, but a new one began. My ex and I still share a meaningful relationship as co-parents and friends. It wasn’t an easy journey, but it was the right choice for both of us. It’s been over two years now, and through all the rebuilding and reflecting, I’ve grown so much.
The second major change was stepping away from Wyeth, the brand I poured my heart into. I’m so proud of what we accomplished—being featured in Vogue, WWD, landing in major retailers like Shopbop and Nordstrom—but eventually, I had to be honest with myself. It no longer aligned with the vision I have for my life. As any entrepreneur knows, there are so many complexities when it comes to owning a company. While I cannot get in to specifics, I can share that I have sold my interest and transitioned out, feeling confident that Wyeth will continue to thrive without me.
These experiences have taught me that letting go is less about saying goodbye and more about creating space for new beginnings. And what a gift these changes have given me—a fresh start! I’m finally in a place where I can ask myself, “What do I want? Who do I want to be?” I feel hopeful and more like myself than ever before.
I know many of you are going through similar transitions, and while I’ve been figuring things out in real time, I wanted to share a few small tips that have helped me along the way. These may seem trivial and I will definitely share more reflections if that is something you all are interested in.
- Be present – Don’t rush through feelings; let yourself experience them fully.
- Create a routine – It’s grounding during times of change.
- Seek support – Surround yourself with uplifting people, and don’t hesitate to pause before committing to plans.
- Gratitude journaling – Focus on what you’re thankful for each day.
- Create a personal sanctuary – Find a space that reconnects you with your higher self.
I just want to say thank you. Many of you have been with me for 13 years, from my first blogging collaboration to now. Your support has carried me through some of the toughest times, and I can’t thank you enough for your encouragement with Wyeth. Now, as I close that chapter, I’m excited to refocus on my personal brand, where it all began, and what’s next.
Cheers to the next chapter! Thank you for being here with me through it all!
